According to Christian mythology, Adam and Eve were the first people created. So their children were living alone in the world.

In Genesis 4:16-17 it says that Cain left Eden and went towards the east to live. There he met his wife and got married and had a child. Where did that woman come from? Weren't Adam and Eve the first people created?


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To address the claim that Cain moved away and then found his wife, this simply isn't stated in the text. Perhaps the confusion is on the phrasing. Genesis 4:16-17 doesn't say that Cain met his wife in the land of Nod. Here is the King James Version of those verses:

And Cain went out from the presence of the LORD, and dwelt in the land of Nod, on the east of Eden. And Cain knew his wife; and she conceived, and bare Enoch: and he builded a city, and called the name of the city, after the name of his son, Enoch.

The phrase "knew his wife" is a construction used repeatedly in the King James translation. "knew" here doesn't mean "met", it means "had sex with". Later translations usually make this a bit more clear to the modern ear, using phrases like "made love to", instead.

As I understand it (and I'm not a scholar of Hebrew), לדעת has many meanings, including both having knowledge of, and having sexual congress with (possibly euphemistically). To me, the intended meaning seems clear here (not all people I meet conceive and bear my children, after all). And to the best of my knowledge there isn't any real debate of the correct interpretation of this passage.

More discussion of this usage can be found on English Language & Usage: Why did Old Testament scholars choose to employ “to know” in a sexual sense?

There is nothing that precludes Cain having already been married to one of his sisters at the time that he left for Nod, and that he brought her with him.

  • In the ancient greek version of Genesis from which the King James version was translated (if I am not mistaken about the origin), it states met. In past tense Commented Apr 29, 2015 at 16:05
  • As far as the Greek, I can't really speak to that. It could be it was a similar euphemism in the language. In modern english "have relations with" would be similar as well. Or it could be a mistranslation, for all I know.
    – femtoRgon
    Commented Apr 29, 2015 at 16:26

Adam and Eve had many other unnamed sons and daughters besides Seth, Kain and Abel (Gen. 5:4).

Marriage to a sister in the early stage of the human race was not considere wrong or unnatural. Even later on Abraham’s wife was his half-sister (20:12); also 24:4 and 28:2. God did not prohibit such marriages until the time of Moses when is was specifically stated it was against the law of God according to Lev. 18:9, 18:11, 20:17, and Deut. 27:22.

Because there were no human beings except those born of Adam and Eve, sibling marriages were a necessity. St Augustine says,

As, therefore, the human race, subsequently to the first marriage of the man who was made of dust, and his wife who was made out of his side, required the union of males and females in order that it might multiply, and as there were no human beings except those who had been born of these two, men took their sisters for wives,—an act which was as certainly dictated by necessity in these ancient days as afterwards it was condemned by the prohibitions of religion . . . and though it was quite allowable in the earliest ages of the human race to marry one’s sister, it is now abhorred as a thing which no circumstances could justify. (The City of God XV.16)

So Kain married a woman who was related to him by blood.

Source: Catholic

  • Yes but he moved away from his family and then found his wife..... Commented Apr 29, 2015 at 12:14
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    Ah the good old days, were everyone was related to everyone and you could marry your sister. A simpler time, a better time!
    – Daft
    Commented Apr 29, 2015 at 14:23
  • "Marriage to a sister in the early stage of the human race was not considered wrong or unnatural" Considered by whom?
    – lionel
    Commented Jul 17, 2020 at 19:19

Adam and Eve had more children; this is found in Genesis 5:4

And the days of Adam after he had begotten Seth were eight hundred years: and he begat sons and daughters:

I found my answer on this Christian site. On that particular site it is argued that the woman Cain married had to be one of his sisters. They argue against the theory that God created other humans as well, saying that according to the Bible all men descended from Adam. (I'm still looking for an exact bible verse to say that, but it fits with what I've been taught).

The relationship would be incestual, but the command against incest appears in Leviticus - it is given long after the events in Genesis.

  • And it wouldn't be the only condoned incestual relationship. The Moabites descended from Moab, son of Lot and Lot's daughter. The usual explanation I read is that humans were more pure at that time (which also explains their longevity) so incest was not (yet) a (major) problem.
    – oerkelens
    Commented Apr 29, 2015 at 9:14
  • Yes but he moved away from his family and then found his wife..... Commented Apr 29, 2015 at 12:14
  • @JohnDemetriou That particular page says that at least some of these other children had moved away already. It doesn't offer Biblical support for this, but when you assume that all humans descend from Adam, that is pretty much the only explanation left. Commented Apr 29, 2015 at 17:59

This started out as a comment responding to other comments made on femtoRgon's Answer but then it got long (+ it's essentially an Answer too, so I figured I might as well add it as such).

The King James Version is actually an update of previous English Bibles like the 1560s Bishop's Bible, which says that

Cain also knewe his wyfe

and the 1580s Geneva Bible, which has:

Kain also knewe his wife

All three translations rely quite heavily on the ancient Latin Vulgate Bible, actually, translating quite closely cognovit autem Cain uxorem suam, which could just as correctly be rendered "Cain was cognizant of his wife". The English term recognise comes from the same Latin root, referring to the action of perceiving or seeing someone with whom one is already familiar. So another way of putting it could very well be: "Cain recognised/acknowledged his wife".

Of all this the Ancient Greek—or Septuagint [or LXX], as it is called—translation says pretty much the same thing:

Καὶ ἔγνω Καιν τὴν γυναῖκα αὐτοῦ

"And Kain egno his woman".

English know actually derives from that Greek word, which in this passage simply means sexual intercourse, the most intimate way in which a person can be known in most human contexts. (FemtoRgon's response addresses this quite well.)

Where the wife came from is simply never stated anywhere in the text. It can only be inferred from the scanty evidence provided in the narrative. For all we know (no pun intended), she could be a member of the same mysterious family referred to as "the sons of God" in Genesis 6, one of the most tantalisingly ambiguous passages in the Bible. [That tiny tidbit of Ch. 6 info inspired the Book of 1 Enoch, an 108-chapter anthology of what those who don't consider it canon might be inclined to see as a massive tome of ancient sci-fi fan-fiction. In Enoch these "children of God" are called the egregoroi {or in Aramaic, iyrin}, "watchers"].

In the [Greek] LXX, the same essential sentence construction employed in Genesis 4.17 is what begins the same chapter in v. 1, to describe the conception of Cain himself:

Αδαμ δὲ ἔγνω Ευαν τὴν γυναῖκα αὐτοῦ

"And Adam knew [egno] his woman Eua".

From that "knowledge," Cain is born. A continuation of the theme of knowledge is most likely intended here: the first time the concept occurs in the story ever since the consumption of the fruit of the Tree of the Knowledge in the park [or "garden" as it is almost invariably translated in English].

At any rate, by this point in the story I think it's safe to assume that Adam and Eve have definitely already met each other before, and Adam's knowing of his wife cannot mean that they are meeting for the first time.

The arrival, in Ch. 6, of "the sons of God" (whoever those are) among "the daughters of Adam" (whatever that implies but also may not mean), is, however, not in the scope of most interpretations of the identity of Cain's wife (I am the first person I know to suggest that she might have been a Watcher). In 1 Enoch the iyrin/egregoroi first take human wives only generations after Cain's own family begins to grow. This would appear to follow the common interpretation that Cain was married to his sister.

The apocryphal Book of Jubilees names all the wives of the sons of Adam who are mentioned in Genesis, identifying Cain's wife as his own sister Awan and Seth's wife as his own sister Azura. In another tradition Cain's wife is called Aqlima, and she is in fact his twin.

The understanding in the sister-wife interpretation is basic and standard: Cain kills his brother Abel for some reason or other. Cain then either takes one of his sisters (in the version featuring Aqlima, Abel also has a twin sister) and marries her after his flight from home, or he is in fact already married to her at this point. There does not appear to be any ancient interpretation in which Cain somehow meets a relative after his flight and only then marries her. Which is not to say that it is impossible for it to be read that way. It absolutely leaves itself an open question. And a mystery. (Unless, i.e., stuff like the Book of Jubilees should be taken to heart.)

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